40 Something
Readers' Reviews

Best book for contemporary life in Australia.
Amazon, November 21, 2010

The book is great, interesting, with many innovative ideas of the life in 2010, places that I remember and places that I now need to remember... it really gave me the desire to be back in Melbourne. No other book captures the life in contemporary Australia the way Pasquale Palmieri did.Read it now, don't wait for the movie, which I'm sure will follow.

Ronen Paldi

What a great book and what a great sense of humor.
Amazon, January 5, 2011

I have really enjoyed reading "40 something". Pasquale's figurative and humorous language made me feel like being part of every single situation and it made me smile continuously. After being away from Melbourne for so many years it also made me feel kind of "homesick" and brought up a lot of good memories. I actually regret that I have already finished reading it.

Marianne Hoehl

Explores relevant and challenging issues in the modern relationships of old friends in Melbourne, Australia.
January 27, 2011

'40 Something' really draws you in to the intimate conversations of a close circle of friends - a circle that allows them the freedom to speak frankly about their innermost fears and desires. This insightful book pulls no punches, posing the big questions that can be challenging in our plight for love, sex and enduring relationships. The writing style is unconventional and throws the reader in amidst the characters discussions. I recommend this book for anyone interested in how modern people tackle age-old dilemmas in an urban society.

Eleana Sikiotis

Excellent READ.
Amazon, February 16, 2011

Being 40 something myself, I could relate to this wonderful story, even though it is set in Australia, it is universal and I enjoyed every line of this great read! It is honest, refreshing, insightful, throughly delightful! I look very forward to his next book!

Veronika Williams

An excellent insight into the lives of the 40's and what I have to look forward and out for. Great page turner. Loved it.
Amazon, February 14, 2011

An excellent insight into the lives, loves and hopes of the 40's and what I have to look forward to. great page turner. I kept finding a smile across my face. really clearly and cleverly written for a first time novelist. Loved it.

70 Australia

About 40 Something, a novel by Pasquale M Palmieri.
January 13, 2011

Brilliant Pasquale, just brilliant!

Shelley Roberts

I think we all wish we had a similar relationship with our friends and family.
FB, February 20, 2011

I have now finished reading Pasquale's book and I'm very impressed. In the beginning it was a bit difficult for me to get into the book and I mixed up the characters, but after a few chapters I was hooked and found it hard to put it down.
It felt as the characters became my friends and I looked forward to my moments with the book.
Their incredibly close relationship made the moments around the table very interesting. They knew they would be treated with respect, love and always get 100% honesty, (Whether they like it or not).

I think we all wish we had a similar relationship with our friends and family, always have someone who supports you and stands by your side, always have someone who will tell their opinion and know you better than anyone else.
While I was reading I could sometimes stop and just be impressed by, and be incredibly proud of all the meaningful messages, all the nice words and all the deep thoughts written by Pasquale, very well done!
Even though I'm only in my "30 something" (soon), I had a major exchange from the book and had many eye-opener.
Reading the book has also made me long to return to Melbourne and miss my lovely "Aussi-family" even more!

Sofie Grönroos

Such familiar places, I could almost hear the chatter.
FB, December 4, 2010

Such familiar places and I could almost hear the chatter of Acland St. So many parts made me smile, frown, tear up and most of all made me think.
The scene set is one of a family, without blood but a family none-the-less, something that I think most of us aim to achieve... I saw so many people that I have come across in life in each of the characters and Patricia's line 'Try to not keep recreating your todays on the blueprint of your yesterdays' really struck a cord with me. We all get so lost in the day to day life, surviving each day, and this book shows us to take a step back and to take a look at ourselves. I could relate to them all, but in very different ways, which made me enjoy turning each page. Such a diverse group of people who have just one real thing in common: their mutual love and respect for each other.
A brilliant book by a brilliant man.

Janine Rothwell

40 Something is really something.
Amazon, February 21, 2011

40 Something is really something... a book like no other I have had the pleasure to read in recent times.  
My attention was captured from the very first page by the literary style which is fresh and engaging. You are invited in and instantly feel a part of their lives, perhaps akin to watching an episode of reality TV, or the 13th guest at the table of 12 just hovering, listening feeling and experiencing every known emotion as you relate your own life to theirs. 
The story is set in my home town of Melbourne.  A beautiful city that is young by comparison but yet steeped in diversity in all things. 

The group of 12 friends forms a melting pot.  Each character contributes in their own way through their varying cultures, upbringings, beliefs intellect, talents and experiences, all brought together into this rich rewarding "minestrone" soup that makes this circle of friends truly interesting. 

As you explore the 12 characters you want to cry with them, hug them or at times slap them across the face as you share their journey and gain insight into their views on all topics and life’s challenges.

Overall the story is beautifully written, it begs you to want read on to find out just how the next day, next event  for whoever was the centerpiece of that chapter pans out. 

The clever phraseology, inferences and beautifully crafted descriptions by Pasquale are masterful and at time leave doubt in your mind regarding your own personal views and beliefs about life, love and all things eternal. 

Alex Sipala

Excellent reading! .
Amazon, August 9, 2011

Excellent reading!
At first I thought the book started up really slow but then Palmieri's brilliant writing caught my interest and it became hard to put the book down! Beautiful character development, the reader feels like he/she knows these guys in the story!
Palmieri elegantly intertwines personal experience, wisdom and philosophy like he's describing his own friends and their friendship he experienced. The reader becomes part of the story, the twelve friends who share dinner share their lives with you, the reader, you become part of the story! You've met these people in your circle of friends, the hard worker, the dreamer, the artist, the writer, the cook, the meticulous perfectionist, the womanizer, the bitter aging couple, the success stories, the loss of a loved one, the kids, the tingle of romance and sexual attraction, everyday gro
wing and aging, all aspects are so realistically intertwined, the reader must become part of the story!
I loaned the book to my girlfriend, but I will read it again and this time I will take time to write down the really philosophical observations by Palmieri so as to be able to use them as a mantra perhaps or at least as a useful quote!
I really really liked this book! It will join all my 're-readables' in my library!

Captain Thomas

I read in two days (had to get a little sleep).
FB, April 19, 2011

A while back I posted "don't bother me" because your book came in and I was enthused to read it. Then I never came back to tell you how great it is. I read in two days (had to get a little sleep). I really enjoyed the way you told the story, it was like sitting down with a friend and catching up on everyone.

Margo Armistead

I felt like I was right there.
Barnes & Noble, August 4, 2011

I felt like I was right there with these people, involved in their conversations and sharing in the life experiences.

Margo Armistead

There's Something in the Air.
Amazon, February 14, 2011

At first glance, Pasquale M. Palmieri's '40 Something' is a vibrant account of a circle of friends living in what has been described as one of the most liveable cities in the world. Certainly, the images painted of Melbourne's beaches, latte culture and social diversity are colourful and tangible. The 'amici' themselves go some way in promoting their enviable lifestyles as they indulge their familial get-togethers with mouth-watering brunches, wine-soaked dinner parties and intellectual forays.

But, dig a little deeper and, as with any group of close relationships, each individual's caricature is gradually exposed: an identifiable visual likeness that extrudes from them all without exception - the 'ego'. Much like cosmic static, the pages are filled with the noisy brouhaha of these varied personalities, each clambering for their place to be seen, heard, respected and loved.

Caught up in their life stories they appear to be searching for the titular 'something' . . . else. Superficially content with their lot, yet aching (some more imperceptibly than others) with a sense of yearning, these characters come to represent the spiritual dis-ease that exists even in the 'best' cities in the world. As Liam (an entrepreneur Casanova) declares, ". . . I realised how much I didn't want a story to develop in my life, with all the attached expectations and pain and affective complications . . . let's just have fun."

At times, it looks as though love is the missing jigsaw piece. But with an almost obsessive focus on the erotic, romance, or, simply, the 'feeling' of this dubious emotion, their collective search soon becomes entangled with their skewed perceptions of the world, which indiscriminately reflects back the very lack that they see. What they seem to be missing lies at their fingertips: authentic; universal; and unconditional love, or, a whole-hearted acceptance of self and others.

Luca (the central character), is the first to tap into this as he explores the infinite possibilities of being. Not without his own backpack of emotions, his journey is honest and refreshing as he attempts to shed the layers of his past to fully embrace his experience of the 'now'. Despite the background static, he, and soul-mate Patricia, casually bring an air of stillness and peace to the fold as they philosophise over existential concerns. Their attempts to understand the human experience are often deflected by the whirlwind of egos with which they have become inseparable - their friends. Clearly 'living' in the past and future, the latter avoid the present moment like the plague, ducking and darting from its attempt to catch their attention lest their misperceived conceptions of vulnerability and powerlessness make themselves felt.

If storytelling is naturally designed to fulfil the ego's appetite (which enjoys nothing more than gnawing away on the gnarled bones of dramatic tension), it's far from easy to produce interesting and absorbing fictional writings that highlight in some way the arrival of the Age of Consciousness without coming across too 'woo-woo'. As paradoxes go, telling a story without the telling of a story is quite a challenging one. But, just as the writer Paulo Coelho does in many of his works, Pasquale M. Palmieri goes some way in effectively using the novel as a means of revealing the nature of our true selves, whether consciously understood (or, even better, experienced) by the reader or not.

'40 Something' does this with kid gloves, without condescension or pretence, by gently planting the idea that self-awareness is not only realisable by anyone, but is simply one breath away. Palmieri warmly and sensually invites us to share with Luca his journey as he realises enlightenment without the need to compromise his humanness or extricate himself from the material world he inhabits, one in which he interacts often with the people he loves as fellow human beings.

As the Zen proverb goes, "Before Enlightenment, chop wood carry water. After Enlightenment, chop wood carry water."

Jae Dee Scott

An insightful book that grows on you with every page.
Amazon, January 19, 2011

Pasquale's style and approach to writing is both insightful and unique. Even though I'm only in my early 30's, I still related well to the twelve diverse characters and their complex stories. I enjoyed reading about all the ups and downs of their everyday lives - dealing with love, lust, friendships and family. By the time I finished reading I really felt like I had become a part of this group.
I highly recommend this book, especially to those who know Melbourne, who have been married and are either in their 40's or older.

Marco Palmieri

Lovely book.
Amazon, February 23, 2011

Easy to read with interesting and funny dialogs. One becomes part of this group of friends in only a few pages.
The Melbourne setting made the book even more personal to me, as I recognized the cafes and restaurants where some of the events took place.
I'm thrilled to own a copy signed by the author.
Highly recommend this book. 

Simona Prochazkova

Delightful 40 Something.
Amazon, April 13, 2011

I've just finished reading the book " 40 Something " written by Pasquale Palmieri!
After reading chilling, terrifying thrillers, the novel "40 Something" has been an ideal book with which it was deliciously great to relax and laze away on the attic floor. Yes, indeed, this novel is an excellent switch from death and violence and it is so refreshing, had a hypnotic effect on me! "40 Something" is a a true rarity, frank and funny reading, weaving real people's stories presumably based on Pasquale Palmieri's own experiences and containing sharp examinations of relationships and marriage of people from different backgrounds and cultures.

Pasquale Palmieri's writing has a shining quality which made me linger to every paragraph, grabbed me fast and kept me glued until very late hours..while also I was longing to turn the page on the future characters and their stories..This novel contains a lot of entertaining stories, some of them are funny and really touchy and some are truly philosophical and insightful about the delusions, hopes, disappointments and there are a lot of wisdom in them as well.

It would be a rare person who read this novel without many nods or shudder of the recognition, finding amazing similarity in feelings or behavior to the characters or to someone they know. His writing is entertaining, hilarious, warm , witty, direct, has smooth way of transferring from mouth watering recipes and dinners around the Big table to the weather in Melbourne or to sparkling humor to very cleverly dissected" skirmish" between the couples!
" 40 Something" is the novel about LIFE---beautiful, ironic, despairing, about PEOPLE---their lives, their loves, their marriages and fights...The novel is deep in human sympathy and compassion.

P.Palmieri is excellent and sensitive at handling of relationships, very insightful and develops a delightful cast of closely observed, interesting characters. All his characters are wonderfully good people despite their weaknesses, confusions, doubts, squabbles.

He created marvelous range of people and they are so believable. He has the way of lulling you into a false sense of reality by the normality of his characters. I've assumed it has been something close to his autobiography and on the top of that I had this amazing feeling I was a part of the group around the Big table and had an instant urge to join the group, to share and to reveal the stories of my 15 year marriage ! His characters able to bring you to well of understanding on a gentle leash, informing and inspiring, forcing you to think and analyze yourself and your relationship or your marriage.

P. Palmieri is an intelligent, profound, philosopher, his wit is bright, humor is attractive, writing full of warmth, light and sparkles with love for people. He knows how to tell the story, he has talent for character development and acutely observed relationships.

He sensitively depicts characters and true relationships, creating an insightful study of what is and what might be.
He writes beautifully, sensuously at times, with images and characters that are vivid and linger in the memory, you feel you know them and at the end of the book I had the feeling it has to be the book #2 !!

The novel is absorbing psychological study of human cultural behavior, relationships, and the factors that can undermine them and it works on many levels...friendship, love, death of dear ones...
All the characters and the back ground details are finely sketched and before you know it, you have reached the last page and you want to read some more.

Don't miss this witty, original story of 12 friends!
Super-novel, full of personal surprises, and love, and passion...
I could not put it down and can't stop spreading the word!!...

AND...I'VE STARTED RE-READING THE CHAPTERS ALL OVER GAIN !! But this time I'm reading the chapters slowly..enjoying it....like eating my favorite desert ...!
This novel is one of those that it is wonderful to keep on the table ALL THE TIME!

I wish everyone read it and enjoy the way I did!
Thank you Pasquale for your Book!

Svetlana GI

Goodreads, December 7, 2011



It will floor you! Knock-out, flat on your back!
FB, November 11, 2011

I send you my gift of appreciation for what I learned from reading your book! Yes, I bought it, read it and it was worth every penny! All I can say: Want a great read and understand 'friendship'? Read this! It will floor you! Knock-out, flat on your back! you never knew anything about friendship until you read this!
Yes, buy his book! It is one of the best reads you can... choose if you are 40 something and want to know about the deepest values of friendship!
If you're younger, it will give you an outlook on your future and how blank your future would be if you do not nourish your friendships! No pun intended, symbolic feasts of 'nourishment' among the dozen friends in Pasquale's book are the gist of his psychologically charged character analysis of twelve random people from all walks of life!
A fab read, entertaining and cause to think!
Thank you Pasquale, I loved reading your book! You enhanced my life at 62 and I hope that others see me in a better light since I made some changes!

Thomas M. Ubelacker

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